Proper Party Etiquette
So you’re graduating from the kegger and cries of “help yourself” to a gathering a bit more civilized. Whether you’re throwing a shower or a housewarming or are a guest at a gathering, there are some bits of etiquette you should keep in mind to ensure that you and your guests, have a wonderful time.
When you’re the host/hostess:
- When you have people over to a gathering at your home, you need to meet them at the door when they arrive. Don’t leave the door open, or leave a sign that says “come on in”. One of the most uncomfortable feelings is for a guest to walk into a party where they don’t really know many other guests and try to find their way to the host/hostess. It’s just tacky. Show your guests that you truly appreciate them being there.
- Never be late to your own party. Make sure that all preparations are made and done 30 minutes prior to the time your guests are scheduled to arrive. This will allow you a short period of time to relax before the party begins.
- Make sure you have a secure place for guests to put their personal belongings (purse, coats and umbrellas). Whether it is a bedroom or other room, or a closet, your guests should not have to carry their stuff all night long.
- Watch the alcohol. You are there to take care of your guests, not the other way around. If you care to imbibe with a few cocktails, by all means do so. If you drink excessively, you’re no longer in control of your party and your guests won’t appreciate it.
- If you don’t want stains on your wood furniture, provide coasters for your guests.
- When your guests leave, walk them to the door.
When you’re the guest:
- ALWAYS, ALWAYS RSVP to an invitation, regardless of whether you will be attending or not. A good deal of planning goes into having a party, knowing the total number of people who will be attending is imperative to proper party planning. RSVP as early as possible and definitely before the due date on the invitation. Delaying your response will make the host/hostess feel as if you are waiting for a better opportunity. RSVP-ing AFTER the due date on an invitation is extremely rude.
- If you RSVP that you will be attending the party and later find out that you can not make it, be sure to tell the person who invited you. It’s better to let that person know later, rather than never, that you will not be attending.
- DO NOT bring guests that are not invited to the party. Only bring additional people if you have the permission of the host/hostess.
|
Email this Article
Print this Article
