Choosing/Finding a Roommate
Think also about what you’re looking for in a roommate. You shouldn’t settle for the first person that shows interest and, on the flip side, you also shouldn’t wait for the “perfect” match, it just might never come. Ask yourself the following questions (yes, more questions):
- Do you smoke, if not, are you willing to live with someone who does?
- Are you willing to live with a person of the opposite sex?
- Are you willing to live with a person with an alternative lifestyle?
- What is the age range you’re looking for in a roommate?
- Where does your potential roommate work and is there potential for a carpool or rideshare?
- Will your potential roommate have the financial means to pay rent and utilities? This one is imperative, you MUST be completely upfront with how much rent will be paid and what utilities are to be split.
Things you should EXPECT from a roommate:
- Neatness
- Common courtesy and respect for personal space
- Safe living habits (this means the apartment key doesn’t get copied and given out to all his/her friends)
- Timely payment of rent and utilities
Let’s be honest here, it would be great if the person you select to live with you becomes a friend, but often, its more of a business relationship. If the friendship doesn’t develop, don’t be disappointed. As long as your roommate meets the minimum expectations, you’re still lucky!
And just how do you go about finding this person? Post notes in local coffee shops? Place an ad in a local paper? Go door to door like an encyclopedia sales person? NO!!! There are many online resources you can easily use to peruse thousands of potential roomies. Basic membership is usually free and you’ll be able to not only see photos of candidates, but determine the answers to many of the above questions before you even meet him/her face to face! Our favorite site is Roommates.com. It’s quick, easy and free and you can access it right through Apartments.com. Click HERE to start looking now.
Even though you might think that you’ve found the perfect person on line, you should still meet him/her in person before you make any commitments. When you do begin to interview potential roomies, have a friend or family member with you, for two reasons. One - for safety. Two - to offer a second objective opinion. If you’re in a hurry to find someone, sometimes you’ll be more apt to pick the first person that crosses your doorstep. Another opinion should always be welcomed.
The most important thing to keep in mind is to listen to your gut. Your instincts are usually right so stay in tune to them.
This is an exciting time in your life, be prepared, be safe and most importantly, relax and have fun!
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