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Living With Roommates: Part One

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According to the 2007 National Multi-Housing Council tabulations in the Annual Social and Economic Supplement from the U.S. Census Bureau, the 32 percent of Americans who rent — whether they are young, old, married or divorced — are probably going to be looking for a roommate.

Ahh, roommates. Can’t live with ‘em and you can’t pay the bills without ‘em.

Living with roommates can create more work for living in an apartment.

In our “Roommate Scenarios” series, Apartment Living aims to help those lucky 32 percent of us to look at the good, bad and the day-to-day drudgery of living with a partner-in-crime.

Most of us are probably unaware of some of the do’s, don’ts and absolute no-no’s of sharing our space. Your roommate abandoned the place? Well, unless you follow the letter of the law, you’re stuck with the bill. And it’s doubtful your landlord will let you wash his dishes to stay another month!  

Because you and your roomie both signed the lease, you are jointly liable for the rent. Period.

What is unfortunate is that people often enter a legally-binding situation like this without having the basic points nailed down. The following questions to consider come courtesy of the folks at Avalon Communities, a rental property management company:

  • How long will each roommate stay in the apartment?
  • What are the basic house rules concerning guests/smoking/drinking/cleaning/groceries?
  • What happens if a roommate wants to leave early? Who pays the rent? How do you find a replacement?
  • How will you divide the rent?
  • Who gets the bigger room (and does that entail a larger share of the rent?)?
  • Who will have their name on the utility bills?

Even if you and your roommate are best friends (sometimes especially so) it is a good idea to have a written contract — either a roommate agreement or a sublease agreement — depending upon your situation. These can be provided to you by your landlord. It’s in his or her best interest to see all parties involved understand their legal obligations.

Unexpected problems can occur—an argument, job changes, whatever—and a prior agreement sets obligations and rights of the roommates (it’s kind of like a pre-nup if you think about it!). Although these types of agreements can be either oral or written, both are equally enforceable under the law—but obviously in written agreements consequences are clearer.

That last point will be made ever more poignant in Living With Roommates: Part Two. The first subject in the series had been living with his girlfriend for about eight months. His story covers the move-in, the meltdown and the eventual hassle of dealing with the aftermath of a roommate who, in every respect, violated every obligation of being a tenant.  





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MIRANDA


I will be soon living with my friend we will be renting a place. A lot of these places has one room bigger then the other, i have no idea how were going to handle who gets the bigger room and is it wrong to ask whoever gets the bigger one to pay a little more on rent?

JC


hOW ABOUT PAYING THE SAME BUT SWITCHING ROOMS EVERY 3 MONTHS? oTHERWISE, i THINK PAYING A LITTLE MORE IS REASONABLE.

DanaB


Hi JC, not sure how old you are or what mobile dormitory you have recently played revolving doors in but I don’t think offering anyone the opportunity to change bedrooms every other month or so is a solution here. One of the top reasons for leasding an apt is to commit to staying in ONE place for a while. The option should be completely on paper and presented as part of the “ROOM FOR RENT AD” if the potential roomate answers an ad that clearly states the price and does not argue the point before hand,then that is a point of acceptance. Just be sure to keep a hard copy of the ad placed and any emailed responses

 
 
 


I think roommate agreements are important, especially if you are planning to live with a best friend. Unfortunately, I know several people whose friendships ended once they lived with friends, including myself, and it’s a real shame.

Personally, I don’t suggest living with a friend if you value the relationship. Friends are so hard to find these days, especially when you get older, and it’s sad to have friendships end over money or over petty arguments. That’s just my personal take on it.

With that said, my advice to anyone considering having a friend as a roommate, get a roommate agreement!

 
Shamara


living with a room mate is sometimes hard depending on the person you live with. I am not the person that has a roommate but I do have sisters that I had to share room with. Happy Thanksgiving!

 
Sarah-Rae


oh my goodness! i am currently a high school student preparing for college and moving out. i decided i want to get a townhouse with my friend and a couple other people instead of staying in the dorms because that fits me better. this site has SO many helpful things for me because i dont really have anyone else to help me out with this kinda stuff! this roommate agreement stuff is probably going to be a life and friendship saver! AMAZING!!

 
Kristie


I recently moved into a house with someone I’ve known since we were kids. The place was 5 minutes from my new job and I figured why not. I pay for half of everything here. We are now going through a situation where she doesn’t want my male friends upstairs in “her” living room as she claims it. Our house was broken into a couple weeks before Christmas and I feel like she’s pinning it on someone I know. I’ve tried to resolve this situation with her and she does nothing but turn it into a dramatic scene and claims it’s not fair to her. I’m close to finding a way out of my lease but want to know my rights before I do.

 
Leslyn


I have been living as a roommate for the past three years. During the past school year my landlord moved in six of her relatives. Ever since, I am unable to study. The kids stay up until 3 a.m playing and making noise. To make matters worst I have been harassed by her husband.But due to my heavy class schedule I have been unable to look for another place.

Also, recently I asked my landlord to store my text books in her garage. She looked at it and said it is okay leave it. She did not state that I would be putting it there at my own risk. A week later she had a friend throw them out.

Who should pay?

 
LucyZapico


I think a roommate is great to have so he or she can help u pay rent so u can go half and half on the rent.

 
 

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