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Reducing the Noise

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Part of living in an apartment is accepting the fact that peace and quiet will never be achievable 100% of the time.  Whether you’ve got rowdy neighbors, an air conditioning system that rattles uncontrollably or your bedroom window faces the street and you’re woken every Tuesday morning to the sounds of a garbage truck, noise is just something that people come to expect when living in a community setting.

However, there are some pretty easy things you can do to lessen the noise level and regain your sanity.

So, the folks living next to you have arguments all night long, or you just might not have the same musical tastes, the first thing you need to do is to talk to them.  Odds are they have no idea that you can hear them.  If this is the case, there’s a good chance they might be embarrassed when you approach them, so there’s really no reason to be nasty with them.  Sure, if you need to tell your neighbors for the tenth time to turn down the Bob Dylan, your patience level might be at its lowest and your frustration and anger level turned up high.  If you’re approaching your neighbors for the first time because you were up all night listening to them argue about whose mother-in-law is uglier or the fact that not putting the toilet seat down causes serious problems, a little tact may be required. 

After you’ve spoken with your neighbors and if you see no end to the noise in sight, you may need to enlist the help of your landlord to serve as an intermediary.  Together, you may be able to comprise and agree on some easy fixes.  Agree to move stereo equipment away from shared walls, lay down carpets to absorb the pitter patter of little feet and determine what period of time is definitely a no no for noise (that means, not working out on the treadmill at 4:00 am, not vacuuming at 2:00 am and not having loud guests over during the week). 

There’s a good chance that the situation will not escalate any further than this, as long as you keep your temper and work towards a solution.  Don’t forget that a little compromise may be necessary.  Avoid name calling, swearing, and other bad behaviors.  In the event that you’re not dealing with a reasonable individual, and the situation becomes hot: end it, document it and make sure you tell your landlord (if he/she is not present).  If you ever are, or feel, threatened, contact the local authorities at once.  If it gets to this point, there’s a good chance that either you or the problem neighbor won’t be living in that building much longer.  And whichever way you look at it, that’s really not a bad thing.

A quick fix to rattling noises, coming from inside the walls (due to electrical or pipe situations, not rodents, yikes!) is to put gaskets behind electrical cover plates.  Make sure your plumbing pipes are insulated on the outside and are not bumping against solid framing.  If you fear that you might have a rodent problem, contact your building management immediately. 

Contact your building management if you suffer from noises from mechanical devices like elevators, garbage chutes, air conditioning units, heating units or garage door openers.  The building management may be able to do something relatively simple, like moving an air conditioning unit farther away from the apartment building walls, to give you back your sanity. 

Building management can also help you if there’s a lot of noise in your apartment coming from outside.  “No Loitering” signs and a couple phone calls to local law enforcement can work wonders to repel unwanted “tail-gaters” from building property. 

Lastly, there are also things that you can do yourself inside your apartment to help absorb sound. 

Use heavier draperies on windows or as room dividers. 
Caulk under your baseboard.
Place thick throw rugs around your room.
Hang pictures or tapestries on walls.
Use felt cushions on the bottoms of chair and table legs if you have tile or hardwood floors.

And if all else fails, invest in a good pair of ear plugs!!  Good luck!





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Mary Lou


Think I am lucky? Not! My neighbors smoke pot so much and other things I feel high off of it. Which isn’t safe. Any solutions? Lucky to have your answer.

nikki


Umm… call the cops and the landlod! Duh!

S, Morton


What a L O S E R ~

If it was possible to say that any louder, I would.

You poor pathetic thing….

L O S E R

 
 
JBC


Mary Lou,
I am realllly sorry that you rec’d a reply which included “duh” I know how serious your complaints are having lived next door to the same kind of tenant.
Moving forward, every one gets their day and lets pray that “Duh” gets theirs sooner rather than later.!
Anyway, if you can by some of those loving plugins from Bath and Body, keep a window open, whenever possilbe put a towel in from of your door (on the inside), try speaking w/them and say i.e I suffer with allergies and often I smell scents in the building which iriate them. Do you smell those odors or know where they are coming from? gd luck!

 
Shauna


Don’t you hate smarta%% comments like that of “Duh’s”. I am sure that Nikki still lives at home with mommy and daddy~What a total L O S E R….

At any rate, JBC read my mind, 100%. And good luck!

 
annoyed


Do not rent at W.Wyoming ave in Melrose ma!!!!!Specificelly Normandy apts .Neighbors scresmed & yelled all night .Kids jumping up & down on floors .!Mabnager masterbating on my living room window!!!!All true.I went to police they said why don’t you just move???? Unbelievable this is an upscale town Ipaid 1,000 a month to live there .I skipped mgmt 4 obvious reasons and went to owner who said “you’re on a lease agreement!!!Do Your Homework PLEASE!!!!!! when looking for an apt!!!

 
rose


Mary Lou,
It can be very scary to go up to them and tell them you know they are smoking weed and if they dont stop you will call the cops. Most pot heads will get so scared they will stop smoking at there house. At less thats what I did with my new neighbors.
Good luck!

 
 
Stephanie


My 2 year old daughter is very VERY noisey! She gets frustrated easily if I can’t understand what she is saying, and she has trouble sleeping, due too severe allergies.Sometimes she stays up untill 4am screaming, because she is so tired and cant sleep. I do my best to keep her quiet, but I’m sure my nieghbors hate the noise. What should I do? No one has complained yet, but I’m SURE they can hear her.I’m sure they are annoyed by the screaming all night. I just feel bad.

 
JBC


Hi stephanie,
I can appreciate your concerns. Have you tried speaking to your neigbors. If they are human, civil, and parents you should be able to talk with them.
Have you purchased an air purifier, boiled lemongrass, dusted regularly, etc.

 
Brian


You gotta be kidding me!…Ear plugs? Why is it that is suggested SO much? All i hear is boom boom thud, then the place shakes. They stomp around on there heels with no shoes on. I think they should keep them on so theres something rubber between the floor and the heel. Or else it sounds like theres miles and miles of wire or cord being unraveled 3 hours straight. Or marbles or dice or something, or slamming doors. I have broken a window and a ceiling tile because of these losers. They are exremely irritating i have tryed the nice approach, it doesnt work trust me.

Kelly


Brian, You are sooo right. I have lived above (if you can believe that) the most noisy neighbors from hell. They bang on the celing and slam doors all day and all night. I think they must be a little mentally off balance because the noise seems intentional. I’m a single mother of one son and going to nursing school. They have destroyed my peace completely and I have talked to them many times etc. So you are so right when you said it “doesn’t work” - some people are just “L O S E R s” (I guess this is the word of the day)

THOMAS


Kelly,
MY NAME IS THOMAS ADAMS AND I REASPECT THE SAD WORDS THAT YOU SPOKE JULY 31ST,07.
IHATED HEARING THAT NEIGHBORS PUSHED YOU TO THAT FAR.IKNOW ABOUT FOUR HOUSES ON MY BLOCK THAT THOUGHT THAT THEY WAS GOING TO TEAR UP THE PEACE AROUND MY HOUSE AND FAMILY TOO.DRUGS,GUNS,SHOOTING,KIDS CANT PLAY OUT SIDE DO TO THIS CONSTANTLY AROUND THEM.
BUT, NOW I STILL HAVE MY PEACE KIDS PLAY ALL DAY DOGS BARK NEIGHBORS SITS OUT FRONT ON THE POURCH…
NEVER,NEVER,EVER GIVEUP!!!!

 
 
 
jasmine


I work nights and ihave a older couple that lives next to me.They have a son thats like 25-30. He doesnt have a job and bumbs his music all day or when mommy and daddy are at work.which is in the morning,afternoon.when im just getting to bed.I asked the loser twice to keep it down and it just caused a problem I wanted to knock the guy out and just move:).

 
Todd K.


After reading these reviews, I know that there are a lot of single minded trash that live in your complex.

C Ya

 
Renee


I live on the 2nd floor of well insulated apartments. Every once in awhile my husband likes to listen to music, he usually keeps the volume on 3 which is fine I can go in the bedroom and barely hear a thing, One night when the pizza man came I had my front door open and my neighbor across from me opens his door to tell me he can hear the base over his TV well it was only 7:30 pm Friday eve.I think if this is the case your neighbors should also be considerate of you needing to have a life too. We are usually in bed by 8:30 so its very rare that we make noise. I say if its after 10:00pm then talk to nieghbors.

 
Kelly


Brian - You are soo right. I have tried to speak with my impossible noisy neigbors to no avail. It is a remarkable nightmare.

 
Katt


I feel your pain. My upstairs neighbors had a drum set, and they also liked to throw parties late into the night. Usually telling them to be quiet helped, but they tended to get hostile when they were drunk. It was actually a friend who lived on the other side of the complex who complained to the landlord because she could hear the little drummer boy all the way over there. The landlord went and had a chat with them. It seems to have worked - the drummer practices during the day time and there haven’t been any loud late-night parties since.

 
Hatter


marylou, I know what you mean. Its like, once you call the cops, they get there and the pots gone. We had a new neighbor outside cold firing his handgun. What was I gonna do, call the cops, they’d get there, the gun would be long gone. Good luck geting a search warrant based on a complaining neighbor. Try the landlord, or invite one of the supers over to smell it as soon as you notice it.

 
kaile


Okay, live on the top floor, I have two kids, okay 3 if you include my husband. We have been very fortunate with the little corner that we are in. My neighbors are great, and we all get along just fine. If there is a problem we handle it like adults and move on. If there are any further incidents that we can’t handle we call the leasing office. If the problem doesn’t get taken care of we call the cops. Each time you call the cops it’s documented, and the third time that they are called to the same place for noise or smoking stuff they are fined $500.00 for disturbing the peace. Grow up people and deal with it!

 
kaile


If you don’t like living in an apartment then save some money and buy a house where you still have to live by the city laws in that area, but you won’t have people walking all over you, or slamming doors unless you have raging hormonal teenagers, and you won’t have to smell “funny odors” unless your 13 year olds gym socks are standing up by themselves, or unless that “funny stuff” is your own. Deal with the fact that you have chosen to live where you are, if you don’t like it MOVE!!!!!!

Bethany


That’s a seriously ignorant response

 
 
Angela


I have this neighbor who stumps all night long. He will not answer the door for nothing in the world for me to shut him up. The office people won’t do anything about it. What should I do??

 
Norman Johnson


Yeah, those are some intelligent solutions, I have some noisy neighbors but parlaying with the one in the building next to mine has yielded some positive results, as he has stopped playing country music so loud.Some neighbors have been so belligerent that I don’t want to talk to them , so I just call the landlord to complain about their loud door slamming and such.

 
Jenn


Kaile, not all people can buy a house, and for various reasons. We are posting questions on here to find out what other people have done in the past, buying a house is not always an option. I don’t mean for this to be rude at all. I wish buying a house was as easy as saving up some money and picking a new home, it isn’t though. THANKS FOR ALL THE GOOD COMMENTS! Sometimes I feel like I’m the only person out there that likes her peace and quiet!

Candi


I agree with you Jenn. I just recently started back renting a two weeks ago to be exact and already I am in the process of writing a letter to the rental office regarding noisy neighbors stomping on the floors during the days and nights. I have a house that I am renting, but I am really thinking about breaking the lease and buying another home because this noise has got to cease. I don’t know if I’m going to be able to handle this for a year!

 
Faith


I agree - I’m trying to get OUT of owning a house to be more “mobile” for jobs. And trust me, just because you own a home doesn’t mean you don’t have to deal with idiot neighbors. Only when you have a house - and they own.. there’s really no chance on them MOVING to solve the issue!

 
 
MECHELLE


I LIVE IN A 1BEDROOM APT AND THE MAN UPSTAIR WALK LIKE A HORSE.I BANG ON THE WALL TO LET HIM KNOW I hear him. HE STOP FOR A MINUTE AND BACK TO THE SAME THING IN MINUTES. I BEEN HERE 9MONTHS THIS JUST START HAPPENING IN 3MONTHS. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

 
Ralph


To all who are bothered by noisy neighbors - Just follow these simple steps, in order:
(1) Speak to them, not when you are angry, but when you can be calm and polite. Explain the problem to them, without using profanity or calling them names. If you are too shy, write them a polite note and slip it under their door.
(2) If that doesn’t work, call the office or landlord. Tell them you will move out if they don’t resolve the problem. In most cases, they will.
(3) If the behavior is illegal (disturbing the peace, smoking pot, etc.) call the police. It may take time, but this WILL stop the problem.
Good Luck!

there loud right now


I have live in the same complex long enough to tell when new tenants will be a problem. Call the cops and complain to the land lord especially when its 3 in the morning.

 
 
Alicia


I live on the bottom floor of an apartment building. I’ve had my share of noisy neighbors and called security and things are quiet. Right now, me and the neighbor upstairs get along well. We tell each other that if the music bothers either one of us, to let us know. So far, neither one complains about the other. Sometimes the vaccum gones on during the night. Sometimes the kid runs around. But being a parent myself, I dont mind. Another neighbor watches kids. Her neighbor complains about kids’ crying. If you don’t like to live were children are, try finding a single/college student complex.

 
Veronica


the noise around this coplex drives me crazy i am disabled and stay home there are to may unemployed people and single mother with bad company when will they get a life and let ppl live in peace and get peace of mind

 
Nancy


Looking for apartment with NO children.

 
michelle


Hi
I live at a townhouse and my right hand side owner rent their town house to 5 college kids. they open a party at 12am until 5am in the morning. I did talk to the owner to tell their renter to quiet down and I did talk to the renter personally, but they do not listen and the owner igrone me. what should I do? I did call the police several time, but they just do not listen and they start to jump at the floor, slam the door very hard all day along, that inculded 2am in the morning. what can I do????? should I put the owner to court and what evidence do I need????

 
kathy


I have an elderly woman on the second floor, I am on the first. She has surround sound TV has it blasting from 6 am until 10 Pm. I work, and notified the rental office often…she still does…I want to call the police but wonder will this do any good. I work and have to get up 6 AM every morning, I have a long drive and its getting to my work performance. Plus I am afraid I will fall asleep at the wheel, because now she is starting at 3 AM in the morning….she is getting worse.

 
Coco


I feel really lucky with my question. The guy that lives above me is an angel but the floor SUCKS. We have studio apts.. His bed is the same place as mine below. When I’m just falling asleep he will be comming home he will hit certain spots just walking from his bed to the bathroom and the floor will crack so loud it scares the S@#$ out of me! I usually end up cursing the ceiling if I’m half asleep! Then I can’t go back to sleep. TRIED EARPLUGS, NO WAY,7D/WK. It’s just an 11X15 sq. ft. area. How much would it cost the owner to put a solid layer of plywood over the old floor. Or are there any other fixes?

 
JenAiha


My problem isn’t only the noise a neighbor always has his radio on at the highest level and is always blowing his fan horn. He has his radio outside and shouts over his radio to talk to people. What’s worse is the marijuana. Sometimes the smell is so strong it literally burns your lungs. I thought that it was illegal, but it must not be because a policemen lives right next to him and has to smell it if I and my guest can. I have frequent guests and they all ask about it. You would think it would a violation of a noise ordinance also, but none of the policeman ever say anything.

 
David4tampa


I got a great idea for everyone with noise problems. Go to target, walmart, kmart. They have these plastic fans with names like “windmachine” and “cyclone” they rang from about 25 to 50 dollars (depends on if you get one with remote) and they cut down on noise. I mean you have the sound of wind, but in some of your cases its better than what your going though. I have lived in many houses, even a frat house, and it has always helped a lot. Good luck everyone.

 
Paula


Is there a time that you can legally tell your tenant to keep the moise level down?

Also, if a tenant has told you that there would only be 3 persons living in the apartment only later to find out that she is approx. 7 moonths pregnant, which would make it 4. Can you ask them to leave?

 
Felix


The landlord has transformed my apartment building into a college co-ed dormitory. He rents the units to students with rich families that co-sign, so he is ensured that he’s paid religiously on the first of the month. Problem is, I am a real person, who has to work and live in a real world, with bills and obligations. At odd hours of the night there are people coming in and out of the building. Slamming the front gate, rattling the walls of my apartment. Kids upstairs running, jumping. Parties thrown with loud music into all hours of the night. We live in San Francisco. Why can’t people go out to party?

 
Felix


College life cont…
upstairs neighbors throw parties and block the driveway with their cars, making it impossible to leave the building without interaction. They even broke the garage door and didn’t bother to say anything to me about it when I passed them on the stairs on the way to the garage to get into my car to go to work. They are active at all hours of the night, like 2am to 5am on Monday and Tuesday nights, stomping around upstairs, banging dishes in their kitchen, marching through their rooms. They knocked on my door late at night to ask me to sell them pot or give them a reference. I need sleep!

 
Barbie


I have a question, I just moved into an apartment recently, and I was thinking having a little party/gathering there to celebrate my birthday, and I also want to rent a stripper. Is that a bad idea? or do you think that is fine. I am clueless because this is my first apartment, and I’m not sure of the rules. So can someone please inform me!!

 
Allison


I attend school from the afternoon to evening and work nights (no later than 12am) so it’s tremendously difficult for me to eliminate all potentially noisy activities at night (arriving home from work, going to the kitchen for a snack, etc). Luckily there are no tenants beneath me.I do my best to be considerate of my neighbors, although it’s difficult since I don’t really know their schedule and cannot adjust my own. Any suggestions?

 
Allison


Mary Lou,
I understand where you’re coming from. I am a cigarette smoker so maybe I shouldn’t complain, but I’m really allergic to the smell of pot. It makes me dizzy, can lead to vomiting depending on the proximity of the smoker, etc. I really hate people smoking anywhere near me but I always suggest taking a light approach to avoid conflict. First, gently tell them you smell it & how it bothers you, ask them to buy an air purifier/open all windows/smoke outside. You’ll get to assess their character, they’ll appreciate your politeness, and depending on their response you can take it from there.

 
rathernotsay


What if the noisy neighbor is the building manager and also a close friend of the landlord?
Anyone know the legal cutoff time for late night music?

To be fair, he is a nice guy, just a drunk and he forgets there are other people in the building. He is always very apologetic the next day and sadly, we are well aware of the deal we have in this SF location..help!

 
ashley


So I live in a top apt. We have 4 kids ranging in age 2 to 11 the older ones know they cant run around and stomp but 2 yr old doesnt know better. Hes being potty trained and runs to the potty he gets over excited and runs. The couple down stairs have 2 kids but they bang on the cieling hard when someone walks thru my apt. I’ve tried everything besides chaining my 2 yr old down in fact I feel like i have to punish my 2 yr old for playing. HELP! please.

 
kris


My lease is up at the end of april and I just resigned about two months ago. The people that live below me have two kids that play basketball inside the house and when the ball hits the walls it is loud. I found out the their parents don’t speak a word of english and there is no way to ask about stopping the noise. We just found out that the people that used to live there had a son that did the same thing but worse and they were told to leave. Now we find out that the kid that used to live there is friends with the kids that are there now and he is telling the kids to make a lot of noise and they are. what do you do? I’m done.

 
Cyndi


Ashley, I have a 2-year-old as well, and for that reason, I’ve decided that the best thing to do is to always try to find a floor-level apartment. I know what it’s like to have upstairs neighbors with kids who run around and jump ALL THE TIME and it’s not fun. I guess everyone wants their peace and quiet, and I know my 2-year-old is very active and rowdy (I think all 2-yr-olds are). But that’s why I don’t want to live upstairs. I don’t want to deal with the possibility of him falling down the stairs, or the possible bad situation with my downstairs neighbors and all the noise.

 
 

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